And about H's moods- you are mindreading and so what if he thinks what you think he does?
You (and all of us) KNOW this is wrong. It's like if someone suspected you stole something but never comes out and says it..yes it makes you want to defend yourself but the reality is the more you react the more it makes it look like you are DEFENDING yourself...there is nothing to defend! Hope that wasn't too confusing.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004