We have had a few days above the norm here, but it's been a very wet fall, winter and it looks like spring may be that way as well. The snow is finally gone, but it's been raining the last couple of days. I haven't seen this much snow since I was a little girl and that was a long time ago. Trees are starting to bud, flowers are coming up and some are starting to bloom just a little bit. Of course the rabbits and squirrels are doing their own thing these days. Deer are everywhere as well as the skunk population.
Of course, our children are your greatest joy and that's why your xh is hitting you where it hurts. He knows that you adore them. He is very jealous and resentful of the relationship that you have with them.
Congratulations to your daughter! I do hope that she will take the opportunity to go to college. She can always go into the military after she graduates from college. The military is a good way to see the world, but you don't always get the opportunities that you would like to have in the way of travels. I would suggest that she talk to people who are in the military right now or retired and not rely just on her father's comments.
Yep, it's bs about your xh and the air force. He most likely didn't pass the exams or have the smarts to get in and he doesn't want to tell her about that.
I know that I've said this before, but I want to remind you to be careful what you share on here. I may be wrong, but your xh knows entirely too much of what you are doing and I'm just not sure if someone is ready and passing info on to him or if he's got some type of tracking system that has latched on to your email address to follow you all over the place. I could very well be wrong about this....but something just isn't right.
Please take care of yourself. Let's hope the sun does come out again very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
