yikes my first reaction is similar to those in an A...they do not see their sitch as an MLC just as those in an A believe their sitch is NOT just an addictive relationship to escape...they think it is real.

Sorry I can't help! Just being honest that I don't think it would do good...

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004