My advice some time ago was for Maynard to move her belongings to a neutral location (underground storage or whatver) that she can rifle through at her leisure without him involved.
I have seen a few posters give advice to that effect.
Maynard, you need to stop being such a masochist... YOU put her junk someplace where she can pick it up... NOT at HER friends, you put it at your friends place or something.
If you try to arrange something at HER friends place they will CALL her and WARN her.
You do NOT want her warned about this... Just throw the stuff in a box and get it out... this is how she's treating your marriage, not carefully or delciately or with any consideration...
you treat her belongings the same way she is treating the rest of her marriage so she can see what she's doing.
Do NOT pack things nicely... you aren't her employee... toss it in a box and dump it on someone's front lawn and be done with it all
