I have tore into her for telling my daughter before came home. She realizes it was mistake and regrets telling her. It was an emotional reaction when I told her I was coming home and I planned to stay in my house. My daughter has beenn leaning on me for support, and I'll always be there for her. My two daughters are what's most important and keeping me sane.
i agree with the release letter not being given to her. i sent an email along those lines, but with more pursuing in it and it did nothing for her. I have stopped the contact, and now she's been contacting me. Like I said I keep it short and business like.
there's an organization that offers free wilderness expeditions to Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans. I Facebooke'd my daughter the link and asked her what she thought of the trip I wanted to go on. My wife called this morning to let me talk to D4. When she talked to me she asked about the trip I wanted to go on and how much it was. I told her it was all expense paid. The point is my D14 never told her about it. The only way she could have found out was to check out my daughters Text messages because she has Facebook going to her phone.
Now my D14 and I know my wife is looking. I know she's been checking my D14's stuff even before our stitch, but now she's questioning private stuff between my daughter and I.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept