Maynard, I just can't believe you have to be there while this is happening. I must have skipped a post...is this what the vets recommend- to be present? I guess it's good to listen to them then since it is the beginning of your separation and not the middle or the end- get it right early!

Please try to schedule a lot of things GAL wise this week to occupy yourself. It really will help!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004