All this talk about being "lovingly detached" What is that? All I see is detached. And detached has a coldness about it. Where is the loving part? Your chance to act loving to your wife is now. If you miss your chance, when will you get another one?
Bingo.
Trying to heal a marriage means accepting that things will be unbalanced for a while, that you will be the one who is putting more effort into the R than she is.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
