You know the "N" personality cannot ever let the victim go. If they cannot have you to control, no one will. You stood up to him and w/that personality you cannot ever get away from him because of your children. The more you defend yourself, the more he gets off on it. You are wise not to mention it to anyone for he wants to get a reaction out of you.
I just shake my head at what he's doing...too bad you do not have the resources to take him to court for defamation of character. The projections are all about himself and yet, just how does he know what you are or are not doing? He's in another state. I honestly do not know what type of judicial system you have out there, but they belong in the Land of Oz for believing him. I still think he's paying them under the table.
How are you doing? I mean really doing? I don't know about you, but I'm very much ready for spring. It's been a tough few months with the weather for all of us.
Please take care of yourself....
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
