She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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meghunny thank you for the assistance on the letter. I can't help but to write things that appear clingy, because obviously I'm still trying to hang on a bit.

I have told her these things maynard2121, but I've also followed up with the wrong things to say. I have appeared clingy at times. I wan't her to realize that I'm willing to move on with this, and not hold her back on her decision. I've heard that she feels I'm not going to be cooperative and make this difficult.

Maybe the letter isn't important, but it's not like me to write the things that are in the letter meghunny suggested. It's more like me to apologize, agree to change, and give hope for the future. At this point I really don't know what to do. My gut and heart are saying twio totally different things.

I want her to know I ackowlege issues in the marriage. However, in all reality I still don't agree they're divorce warranted, but the rality is she feels that way. I thought the letter would give her some comfort in knowing I won't make this difficult.

No I don't want the divorce or the seperation, but the reality is what it is. I can't change her feelings without changing the behaviors and attitudes she feels is wrong. As we all know these are very confusing situations for us all.