She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[Surviving03]

you really need to read DR.... it tells you very clearly in there that you cannot listen to friends and family. They do not want to see you hurt and they cannot understand the situation and they will more often than not tell you things like your friend told you. Of course that is discouraging. Only you know when you should give up and nobody else knows that. In fact, you can read the first chapter of the book where it talks about this on this website, go to the open forums page and you should see Divorce Remedy and in there it has the first chapter. I suggest that you have no contact and wait to get the book, read it, and then proceed with a plan. I think that even though you dont feel like your actions are pursuing, you still have a little bit of pursuing tendencies in you. I know that this whole thing consumes you every day all day, it consumes me as well. But I think once you get your hands on that book you will understand this a little better and feel more confident that you CAN turn this around.