[quote=marriedCrazy]She has sought treatment off and on, depends on her emotions at the time. If she feels happy, she "doesn't need treatment." If things aren't going the way she'd like; she needs meds and treatment. If a person truly has a PD, and I can't say for either one of them, my W or your H as I'm not a mental health professional, the experts says that they abandon treatment when it starts to hurt or they feel happy.
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not sure if my quote worked. That is what is happening now.

My H called me after he got into that crazy screaming match with his mother...and was all chipper. My MIL was a mess and he was all happy...he didn't tell me about his conversation with his mother..his sister called me to tell me...but he acted like he was on top of the world.. How could you be so happy after getting into such an argument with your mother???

He was supposed to come by today and I didn't hear from him. I was GAL tonight but we are experiencing HEAVY rains...and my basement is getting quite a bit of water. I was actually considering cancelling my plans tonight. I called my H to see if he was still coming by to see the dogs and he wouldn't give me a straight answer. If he was coming by, I asked him to keep an eye on the basement. I get home tonight..I know he was here because he left behind a book and left open multiple drawers where he was checking up on me...but the basement was a mess!!!!! He didn't even go down there to mop things up. I am going to ignore this but I am so piss*d.

I know I shouldn't expect anything from him...so I won't be disappointed..but WTF? He hasn't done ANYTHING around this house since he has moved out...including snow removal for 3 huge snow storms. I haven't asked a thing from him...the one thing I ask..he doesn't do. I guess I am more annoyed that I have to come home from a nice night out to mopping up lots of water. Ughhh.

I need to just get used to this..if our M does not work- I want to buy him out...which will mean I need to just depend on myself. Mopping up water sux!!!!! I can literally kayak in my backyard right now with all the rain we have gotten. Can't you help a sista out???? I am venting here...but I will not mention a word of this to him. I am ready to blow a gasket.


MC-- very good advice..I am just so fired up right now to even think straight..besides the fact that my feet are wet and cold from mopping up water..... To all you Floridians...make room for me...I need some warmth and sun!!!