I still don't buy it. Ok, if there is no OW, then what the ..?? Then we start specualting all over again..is it an early mid-life crisis, an adjustment syndrome thing like Gatsby's H, or just he has deep seated anxieties about becoming a father and doesn't have the maturity to face up to it and his responsbilities.. Far out, these guys problems are mysterious and complex, and we could spend years trying to understand the hows and whys.

Question, did he go to his folks because he has no income? I am assuming he's a full time student. Are you the income earner?

How do you know his parents think you are crazy? Did HE tell you that? If so, ignore it. And yes, whatever, you have the right to be absolutely outraged by what is happening. But, but but, remember to have composure. It's not their fault. I know you know that. Don't try to convince them of how hurt you are right now. They know you are hurting. They know their son is in the wrong.

Don't budge from the house. He's the one that left. Wait till you find out more about your legal rights.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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