i couldnt agree more when you say "each partner owes it to the other to speak up when there is something seriously amiss for them" i was so naive in thinkin we talked about everything... i sometimes thought we were too honest... i wear my heart on my sleeve, what you see is what you get... guess he had and still has a lot of lies...
everytime i insist there is someone he swears there is no one in his life. i think he has lied and dug such a deep hole of lies that he cant admit the truth... he says im looking for a reason to accept that he just didnt love me. I snooped through everything! and found nothing! he still lives w his parents... and they say he is home if he is not "studying". I am pretty sure people can have affairs during the daytime, not just on a saturday night in a bar.
his parents showed support for me until the past few days after the papers came, and now they think i am mad at them and turning this around to make me out to be crazy! i should be crazy! somehow they have managed to make this about them.
As for the house and finances, etc. my mother spoke w him and his parents a several weeks ago (a week before he filed) and he said i can stay in the house for now and he wanted to go to co parenting counsling, blah blah blah. I don t believe anything he says or does... for right now I am not calling or getting in touch with them. i need a break from him and his insanity.
thanks for your encouragement! Sometimes I wish someone would throw DR in his face and make him read it... otehr times i think he is too far and lost.
