"She wanted me to go flip burgers just to get out of the house."
Again. She wanted you out of the house. She didn't mean it literally for you to find "any" job. I don't see why everyone else can see this but you.
"I was willing to bend her way once I realized it meant the difference between having an in-tact family or not, however that was only after she left."
Ah but you weren't willing to bend before. Shows how much you need to change.
So regardless of all this are you still planning to file and get spousal support and full custody?
Somehow I don't think the judge is going to take too kindly to a person (male or female) who is just hanging out collecting unemployment to get spousal support on top of that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.