Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

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Also, should add I think it's completely normal you can't cry right now. It's shock ...upon shock. That's why you need to stay away from contact with him at all costs in order to process, accept, grieve, and heal. I don't know if the pain will ever go away completeley, but I am sure it will get easier.

Especially if you work on getting stronger, and think 100% about the best way to become a mum, even if it's a single mum and it's something you didn't chose. I didn't chose it either (in fact, when I was nervous about conceiving - H wanted kids more than I did & I needed convincing!! - I cried & said to my husband "Don't make me a single mum".. I obviously had an inkling this could happen to us.. Sorry to talk about me.).

I think many of us wish we had read DB and DR the minute we received the bombshell. But it's human nature to start fighting and going with our instincts and doing what feels right at the time. It's very possible that anything you could have done, may have changed nothing. So don't beat yourself up for being a normal human being.

Do start that new thread, and hang in there.