I posted this on the newcomers thread too. Can anyone point me to advice for a person going through a MLC? Or is this even possible since their heads aren't on straight?

Thanks

M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years