Lost1234, I'd seen your post, but did not answer it; as I have NO experience in the meds department, and thought maybe someone else would have..and Snodderly has given you a good explanation.
Like SA's husband, mine wouldn't even SEE a doctor about any of the problems he was having; though I knew he was suffering from low testosterone; he was having hot flashes and mood swings just like a woman does.
One day at a time, one step at a time, working on yourself, and don't worry about your husband...he's on his own time, now.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.