Omigosh Cautious...that is a lot to deal with. I'm assuming ExC is the father? Would he have reason to doubt that?
I think you need to go NC more than ever now. I think you should not discuss your pregnancy at all with your H...he will see it as emotional blackmail. Give him space to absorb and wait for him to bring it up with you.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
