Tell her about the event, and that she is welcome to come along... do NOT ASK her to GO... THAT is pursuit
The IDEA OIN, is to leave HER with the control to chosoe or not.. without ANY influence on your part.
if you ASK someone out, there's influence on your part for them to say yes.
if you INFORM her of the event and tell her she's welcome to come along if she WANTS to, or to not go... there's no pressure.
Do not INVITE, just INFORM... there's a BIG difference, a HUGE difference for your wife..
if she has issues with you controllin her, do NOT INVITE her, just inform her about the event and tell her she's welcome to come along and leave it up to HER... ZERO PRESSURE for her to GO or to NOT GO...
