Thank you for the advice and recommendation, flowmom. I guess I'll let slip the confidential information now so you all can see exactly WHY I am so angry and flipping out right now:
I told ExCautious a week ago I was pregnant. He told me to have an abortion. I said I was not comfortable with that. He said he'd talk to me on Tuesday. Talk never happened. I don't think it's right for him to date while I'm pregnant with his child, so I texted this information to his best friend tonight, asking for his help in getting ExCautious to talk to me about the pregnancy... whether he's involved or not, whether he plans to sue for paternity or not, etc.
I don't feel wrong for what I did. A tiny bit guilty, sure, but definitely not wrong. He doesn't need two women pregnant at the same time, but that's not my choice to make.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
