Something else all along when she'll call herself a pos, or name, i tell her don't call herself that, call me whatever you want. i got some bs text i was mean, whatever...She is adamant for this divorce, but for what???There's nothing out there, she's not seeing someone and for some dang reason she thinks i only listen to others and not her, that ticks me off.
I also in texts in the past have always said this is not your fault, none of it, i do have your back and not angry.
I know the answers have to come from them and months ago I put any thought of a marriage on hold, eventually I want her to know the truths, so no I haven't been bitter, I want her to eventually ask me, bout when did we do that or this, I also feel just like my history has been rewritten well so has hers, that's not fair to anyone.This depression has turned me and our marriage into a bad memory for her, she doesn't have the same happy memories, someone has to protect that for her.
I know all the mistakes I made on this from the beginning to now.
My thoughts are do they eventually come out of mlc if we make them feel safe or at least approachable and are forgiving?
She's not cake eating anymore, hasn't since she's filed btw.
Thoughts on her?
She's doing the thing that even this summer wasn't an option and not ever, ever uttered before.
And no I'm not focused on her right now, praying for her to get thru this for her!
But if I stay loving you think that could help?
Know what I need to do for me.
And I know what I've tried to do for her and kids hasn't worked at all, she wants out of this marriage with no stress.
