It hit me today, I'm out of the house, so I'm not coming back, she wanted to flee, but when I ok'd it she stayed and everything is hers of course, money she is particularly fond of.

It might turn into a miss situation later, I was a good husband and dad,oh yeah she says now, "tried to set hobbies up for you and the kids." and of course she says i didn't do them.

Also she wanted to be alone,"never been alone." that's true she went from one lt relationship to another, with not much of a gap in between.

"lost her voice and time she'll never get back,plus the stress of feeling my sole supporter,paying bills etc."