I was reading in the resources. THAT MOST RETURN TO THEIR CORE values.

I know now the depression is what causes the anger.
The depression causes the need for light conversation.
I know now that when your are depressed anything that makes you feel like you are being told, you explode.
The depression caused the divorce and all emotions towards me.
Everything has been about me with her and I add to her "stress."
The depression is why she feels for the first time she is doing what she needs to do, visit family, get her car. and it is definately about her and what she did for me and I didn't listen."Together,share,listen,stress,common theme."

She's smart if I validate she goes off with the mindgames comments.

My dad got on me about the farmhouse to me it felt like he was telling me and man I went off like a teenager. It hit me like a ton of bricks, I cried, I calmed down called him back. But the whole time I felt like being controlled or put down by him,work,her and I too am looking for anything to make me feel better but in the end still empty.But when he comes around I feel like a teen with him being the parent.

I went ah shoot that's what i'm doing to her.
I also think my wife is acting like a 14yr old, she's just like my daughter,doesn't like anything only cares about what she wants to do.But this too, parents are wierd or embarrassing 12-18 and my wife will call me a bunch of names, but wierd is one she calls an awful lot. I'm going to continue this post.