FM - no I didn't get a new computer. AFter my old computer got a virus (see earlier threads) and the chord wasn't acting right, H handed down his to me (H got a new one for work). So I"m still tied to him through computer
And yeah, being around people who love me - well H is going to be here MOnday night, I could go to my neighbors' who has been a rock for me through all this. Wednesday night I have rehearsal so I won't be alone. Perhaps Tuesday night when I'm here alone with S I will invite neighbor over for support - good idea!
RW - I never thought my H had NPD - but I still read that author quite abit to learn to be less codependant, and set firmer boundaries around verbal abuse. Lately I'm starting to wonder if he actually does...
