I am certain it is a romantic interest in some fashion. That's why he needed the haircut - he's going to take her out for the first time soon.

It's not that he's disinterested in me, just that he's doing what he said he was going to do (and what I vowed not to do) - finding someone he wants to be with that's not me.

I guess the best way is to explain why I am NOT dating: S5. Simple as that. I did date a bit. It felt wrong, but I did it anyway. I convinced myself I deserved to be with someone who loved me. But in the end, S5 was seeing less and less of mommy. And he suffered. No, I WILL be there for my son and will not be distracted by a romantic interest. Nor will I put S5 in the position of deciding whether or not to call new man "Daddy". Wrong, wrong, wrong.

I just have to ride out ExCautious's storm right now, but I am pi$$ed that he's been talking to OW all day instead of spending time with his son.


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.