I agree...I let W know that I was on a blind date once...just as friends and that there was no attfraction there-- thank goodness...you are right, I can see that it only encourages her.
It really does suck, being in recovery, we are encouraged to always share our feelings and our honesty...in this sitch feelings are not to be discussed at all.
Kind of interesting.
I agree about the hug- it was initiated by W, I will do better to keep clear of her...I can see that her holding it longer was control...and unfortunately it worked.
After all, I am the one journaling or writing about it...lol.
CB- thanks for thinking of me- I know the hug was wrong...sometimes I can't help but thnk it will be the last time...shame on me.
