Ken, WAY TOO MANY people show up here with a story almost exactly like yours... and they want to trust their partner, they want to avoid rocking the boat, they want to avoid conflict...
It is a MISTAKE to sit back and watch your wife trash HER marriage AND someone elses... DO SOMETHING.
This is VERY EARLY on and you CAN put this fire out... but you are NOT going to put the fire out by being passive and avoiding conflict.. Get in this guy's face, find some damn leverage and USE IT...
Did you tell his wife that YOUR WIFE has alraedy claimed she wants to divorce YOU for her HUSBAND?
Does she just not believe you or did OM lie to her and tell her that its not true?
I am trying to understand how this woman can be so passive AND you so passive when your wife has already announced she wanted to divorce you for OM.
And ya, she likley said it had nothing to do with OM... tha'ts a classic line.. its a LIE.. we ALL HAVE HEARD THAT ONE.
Ken, I am so frustrated that you arne't getting on TOP of this while you CAN.. I was where you are and I let it happen too... and then she started sleeping with him.. at THAT point I was a complete mess and I couldn't fight the affair at ALL.
Do NOT let it get to that point.
Do NOT let your wife email this creep.. I am TELLING YOU .. get INVOLVED and get in teh MIDDLE of this before it ESCALATES and TWO HOMES are broken apart by ignorance and idleness...
