1. You tell him to STAY AWAY from your WIFE.. period. You find some leverage and you USE IT. do NOT be Passive. 2. If his wife says its "safe" tell her she's mistaken. 3. Do NOT sleep with your wife. 4. Do NOT eat dinner with her. 5. You NEED to STOP ALLOWING her to do this.
SHOW that you will not accept this by NOT going along with all of it.. no dinners with her etc... she WILL get involved with him I can promise you that.
My wife and COUNTLESS other people on here were told the "its ok they can be friends' BS story.. it does NOT work.
I promise you that in three months time you will find out that she's having sex with him. She and he will be delcaring their love and both petitioning for divorce and you will be SO UPSET you will not be able to fight this thing at that point.
If your WIFE is deleting emails then she's NOT being appropriate. If its appropriate then she woudln't HAVE to delete them. and TELL HER THAT.
THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE - HIDE NOTHING.. TELL HER THIS.
Your wife has told you she wants to divorce you for him, NOW she's STILL sending him emails, HIDING them and you actually BELIEVE its all on the level?
She lies to you outright and your response is "I'm not so sure?"
Don't be a FOOL.
Take a stand. Tell your wife that this man needs a qualified professional and that she has gotten emotionally involved with him.. she is NOT CAPABLE of helping him any further.
Tell her outright if she is giong to put HIM before YOU, that she is being VERY DISRESPECTFUL.
And you will then have to head into protection phase...
That OM's wife should be slapped silly... she's naieve as they come...
