Thanks v1olin! You're right, I wasn't "trying" to get to her, a good sign I think. I just don't want to deal with her.

Full court press is on. Coached my son's basketball game this morning, last game of the winter season. W brought my son and daughters. Afterwards, W comes up all smiles and says "How about a picture with your team?" So I posed with the team, then she came over and said "H, you do such a great job coaching. You should consider a second career." I smiled a bit, but didn't really reply, nor did I look at her.

I have completely walled myself off. Seems to be working, as I'm managing to stay detached.

Trying to modernize my repetoire a bit. I'm working on "3 am" by Matchbox 20". Cool song. Guitar is pretty easy, but Rob Thomas is an incredible vocalist. We'll see...