Some people look at the "Another Divorce Busted" section for inspiration, I, however, look at piecing. It's where I hope to be within the next year (fingers crossed). So I had some questions to sort of mentally prepare myself before I get here.

1. How do you deal with insecurities re: OP?

2. At what point did you decide you were officially piecing.

3. Now this one's a little weird. My view on NC is to make HIM come to ME since I had always GONE to HIM. At what point is it acceptable (probably before piecing) for me to start pursuing him again (I mean, in a M it can't be all one sided forever, right?)? I guess what I'm saying is after a few successful dates, can I ask him out?


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.