Yes, sir. My anger issues were all about control. IC didn't help me discover that, I helped me discover that.
Took some deep thinking into my past, present, and future to see that I had control issues, who taught them to me, and why I did the things I did. Not easy to choke down an elixer of self-hate, but it had to be done. I need to know where my mistakes were, and in the beginning I was focusing on ExCautious's mistakes. Took me a year and a half (and a D) to start taking stock of my own blame.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
