Fast track to her divorcing me

[Quart9]

Still hurts though to see her take something so personal like my famly name and treat it like she was putting out a cigarette or throwing away some trash.

I feel you on this bud. It's weird that she went back to her deceased husband's last name instead of her maiden name.

I have just started the process of D'ing my WAW but I wish she had her name changed already. She has been having an A and I don't think she deserves to use my last name (especially when she sent love e-mails to OM and signs with her initials - the last initial being my last name of course).

You deserve closure from your EW, but if you don't get it still try to do your best to move forward.