Question, I kinda said this to WH last time we spoke (after he said he hopes we can be 'best friends' for life), but probably in a garbled manner, and wondering if I should repeat it in an email if WH contacts me again sometime soon. It's word for word what Puppy Dog Tails told his wife (just came across it in another thread & thought it was perfect): "If our marriage ends this way, by you having an affair, cutting and running, and refusing marriage counseling, then I have no intention of being your friend, less your best friend". I think it applies to my sitch. I could wait till he emails me next time. Or I could reply to an email he sent one week ago which I never replied to at the time (it was a simple email about a friend's father dying and how he was sorry one of my colleagues was giving me a hard time at work, with him wishing me a good weekend at the end). Thinking that might be a bit lame though... unsure of my motivations.
Thoughts?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
