Everyone is different so who knows where you will be 2 years from now.
I think having NC is the better way to go. I find that when I do have contact I feel awful afterwards. Some days are better than others. I tend to post on my bad days, so know that I do have good days as well.
Yes, it does get better when you finally meet someone else. MWD is right. When you have kids together divorce does not end your contact with each other. That makes moving on for some of us very difficult.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09