FWIW, I agree with the poster who expressed concern about the "mother love" you are giving to your H. If you want to "be the better option", I think you should consider sticking to the WMLB (why men love bitches) script more closely.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.