GAL- Went to my sister's house tonight after work to help her put together a computer desk. Sent W txt telling her where I was going. Got desk put together and went out for supper and then back to her house to have a few drinks. W txt me @ 9:30-are you still at sisters house? I waited about 1/2 hour and txt back-yes. Haven't heard from her since. Having a good time, maybe she's wondering.....?
Hard as it may be, don't concern yourself with whether she's "wondering" or not. Just enjoy the company of others. This is going to be a long, long, long, long process. The only status reports you must concern yourself with are those pertaining to you. She is likely to give off a lot of false signals disguised as very encouraging progress. If you see these signals don't get sucked in by them as I did, just keep doing what you are doing.
I am of the mindset now that reconciliation has to be initiated by them, not us. We see encouraging signs and we want to jump on them and take the initiative. But I think that leads to disappointment. When/if they ever become ready for it, they will take that step. Then you have a better chance of their heart being in to it. Otherwise it could be just them feeling guilty or coerced by you, and the effort could collapse like a house of cards.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
