MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Hi HB! Yes, I was a little upset yesterday but slept on it and doing ok today!

No, I don't think he was looking for that stuff but may have stumbled on it! Yes, he did take advantage of the kids being here. I was at work. I am positive that he wouldn't like it if I did that to him!

In the past, when he has done something big, like go out and buy a motorcycle, I have confronted him. I would talk about finances and point out that it seemed like he always got what he wanted and I was always waiting for my turn to get something that I needed/wanted. So...usually made it about me. If it was smaller, I probably pouted and would say "nothing" if he asked what was wrong. I don't like admitting that!

You are right about the boundaries...

I have a back up plan for the kids if H doesn't show..we will go do something fun!

I have food in the house now and have a pot of chili on so if he does stop by he can smell it...lol!

Thanks for checking on me and you have a great weekend too!!!