It's funny because I'm not the rally the troops bad a$$ son of a gun they were used to and really just knocked in the dirt, worried about a family they want to turn it on me too.
Oh well, I'll turn that around, there is no way I'm giving them what I gave before, cost my wife and I both the doing things together and as a family for 15yrs.
That's another healthy thing, I haven't been poring hrs into job and not so stressed as you would think. Got some ideas on other things.
Whew, for me today son and 3 of his friends a torn up duplex and looking at stuff for the farm house:)dirt bike and yeah I'm going to get a crotch rocket.
Man I made so many mistakes on this deal, so I'll DB as the divorced spouse and see what that does.
Whats tough is my sitch is like Amy's, my wife asked me to leave and she has the kids and all the creature comforts.