Chatter----Completely agree, unfortunately. I did not see any words of hope in his response to Newmama. Just the opposite
Newmama, I think many of us here are very worried in 1 year, 2 years time we are going to see you in this exact same spot....Waiting, waiting, waiting, extending deadline after deadline for something that will not happen because right now WH has it soooooooooooo goooooood. He truly has the absolute best of both worlds. He has two women pining for him and completely allowing and encouraging this "limbo" stage. You have given him the red carpet treatment for his choices.
I wonder if deep down you feel you can "outwait" OW. That eventually she will get fed up because he hasn't "D"ed and leave him. I see that as an incredibly remote possibility--If she has any feelings for him she will believe anything that he tells her, like most women do. She was willing to love him in spite of a pregnant wife. Remember, it is HER that he is going home to at night...She is receiving all of the WH benefits and she knows this. He will tell her whatever he needs to to keep her staying put and because she is "getting" him, she has no reason to leave.
I am really sorry you are going through this...I know this is the HARDEST thing in the world a woman can go through - especially when you have a sweet innocent child in the mix of it. I have been through it myself and i know what it is like. Again, I am sorry and I hope my words are not too harsh.
((((((HUGS)))))) Please know I am here for you and praying for strength for you and hope that life gives you everything your heart desires. YOU ARE SOOOOO WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
