If Not Now, When?

[ClingingToHope]

I've got the opposite situation going on. D11 is very down about the D. In the car the other day she said I should join eHarmony and forget about mom. A couple weeks ago she told me she wanted to go see this doctor in part because she's cute and not married. And then yesterday, I asked about the new after-school baby sitter. I screened them on the phone but W is meeting them. D11 said the one she's met is nice and a brunette and gave me a big smile. I told her once that almost all of the women I've been involved with -- including W were brunettes, blondes never really went for me.

I keep telling her there's no rush. I'm waiting until things are officially over with W and I.