i really want to wait until I get home to have this conversation, but i was thinking of doing some of these things before i leave. I was actually having this conversation as a final talk. I haven't been, nor do i plan to call her between now and the time i get home. i really don't like extended talks with her right now, that's why I don't even bother to call.
I was actually given the advice to call and set up this conversation by a close friend going through the same thing. the difference is the person giving me the advice is the WAW in her relationship. I keep getting advice from all different directions and that's what makes it hard.
I don't quite understand the point of not seeing me right away either. She said some time ago she's afraid of me changing her mind. I'm really confused by this as well. I know what you're thinking, and I've explored that avenue. I have confirmation from multiple sources that's not the situation.
I may wait to have this talk, I'm not sure it's difficult to decide. Like I said there's a few things I wanted to get the ball rolling on before I get home.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept