i really want to wait until I get home to have this conversation, but i was thinking of doing some of these things before i leave. I was actually having this conversation as a final talk. I haven't been, nor do i plan to call her between now and the time i get home. i really don't like extended talks with her right now, that's why I don't even bother to call.

I was actually given the advice to call and set up this conversation by a close friend going through the same thing. the difference is the person giving me the advice is the WAW in her relationship. I keep getting advice from all different directions and that's what makes it hard.

I don't quite understand the point of not seeing me right away either. She said some time ago she's afraid of me changing her mind. I'm really confused by this as well. I know what you're thinking, and I've explored that avenue. I have confirmation from multiple sources that's not the situation.

I may wait to have this talk, I'm not sure it's difficult to decide. Like I said there's a few things I wanted to get the ball rolling on before I get home.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept