still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[chatterbug]

Lotus normally I ignore your posts to people. But reading what you have written over the last few pages to newmama really makes my blood boil
When you say
Yeah, but....doesn't feel good to him that somebody cares?

And tell her that pursuing is not pursing.

Then follow up with conjecture and mind-reading.

Then add in some crumbs of false hope.

I need to say something.

This man you are saying that should feel good is a Piece of Chit.

Here are the facts.

Married 3 years. Starts an EA in July 2008.... Gets wife Pregnant in October 2008. Leaves wife when 7 months pregnant.
Sets up limbo hell and leaves newmama stuck there... Almost a year.

So lets add this up
"Married" 5 years some time this years.... 3 years Newmama, 2 Years OW.

Now I am going to throw something out there.

Piece of Chit loves OW and loves his child.

Newmama wants the security of a family so she lives in this purgatory for the sole reason that she had a child with him.

And you have the audacity to come here and say those things to newmama. To continue to support her in this hell.

Newmama had a deadline it was January 1st.

Now its summer.

Later on it will be the end of the year.

And all i see is a hurt woman , mother of a child held helpless. Stuck in limbo because of the fear of raising a child alone. Which she is doing. 2 hours a day is not a father. He is a horrible , horrible person. A poor father and I have zero respect for him and what he has done to this woman.

And you want him to feel good.