It is in YOUR best interest to have your own L. It is my udnerstanding that if your H has retained his L, then his L will be obligated to his interests and what they have discussed...at least it is that way in a D but assume it would be that way in a LS. Have you talked with an L yet? I would do that first and go from there on when/if to tell your H. Wishing you the best!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
