I really could use some advice. When would be the proper time to tell my H that this will be his LS, but I will protect myself with my own L? H is under the impression that we will be using the same L. I feel that it would not be in my best interest to use the same attorney. H will be very angry when he finds out because he once stated that he thought we agreed on all of this. I agreed to NOTHING it was all H telling me how it was going to go. (I am not worried about making H angry)
I am asking now as H is switching his half of the property over to S26 and that will be finalized pretty soon. I believe that is when H will put the LS into motion. I think that H believes at this point that I'm OK with his leaving because I have backed off so much. Do I just wait and 'surprise' him or let him know ahead of time? I am not retaining my own L with the hopes of taking H for all I can get. All I want is what's fair. Being that the L that H uses has been his L before we were together. I just feel that having my own would be looking out for me.
If anyone could give insights I sure would appreciate it.
