thanks Grit It was a busy day indeed. Head still spinning. I did read the detachment article..and I am going to reread it until it is implanted into the cortex of my brain!! It is so interesting...you read so much, get such great advice, and then when the curtain rises..you forget your lines.
I guess in concentrating on myself..as my MC suggested...I need to look at why I chose to marry my H. If this M doesn't work out..MC says that I most likely will marry the same man again. That is sobering.