How to be if they want to leave?

[Lost Rabbit]

Was in this situation about seven months ago when a rather unhelpful MC suggested he might need some space!

How do you truly feel about him going?

For me I didnt want him to go but quite frankly he was going whether I liked it or not, he had been given permission by the MC and that just gave him the go ahead. We orginially agreed he went for two weeks, which if I was honest knowing where he was going I thought he'd be back in two weeks screaming to be let in lol! But No he went on to get his own place and I carried on DB'ing. Only thing that needs to said is that unless you have kids which makes it near impossible is that NO CONTACT is a must. They cant see grass isnt greener if they have the old grass reminding them how awful (their belief) it is on a daily basis. I saw H for about three weekends where he could barely stay in my presence then went NC for a whole month, thats when the work started..

Try and get some thoughts down on here as to how you really feel and then we can help you some more! Im in the UK so will pop back probably when your asleep but will catch up!