OTM,

This is not the worst thing someone has said during the troubled times of their lives. People have come back from worse things, and dwelling on it doesn't help. Have you seen the play "Wicked"? The main character is the Wicked Witch of the West, and she is green. bright green. But the handsome leading man falls in love with her, and he says, ""Maybe I'm brainless, maybe I'm wise, but you've got me seeing through different eyes. Somehow I've fallen under your spell..." The eyes of love are different eyes. You were not seeing her through the eyes of love. Now you do. End of story.