8 weeks until D Day!!

[flowmom]

Lea, I think you should involve a child therapist or advocate here. Your H is not going to listen to or believe you. And I don't think you should share your opinions with your sons either. I know it's hard to bite your tongue, but unless you can control it, try not to talk about it. It would be really helpful to have an objective third party intervene on the children's behalf. I can't imagine how sickening it is for you to see that your H isn't even using his time with your sons to concentrate on THEM. It's as much a betrayal of them as it is of you. But again I don't think there's much you can do about it other than get someone objective to step in and guide him towards being more sensitive to your confused, hurting boys.

(((Lea)))