How do I act?

[Surviving03]

so i slept on this a few hours... and im still pissed... it really almost makes me want to just walk away. how do i stay focused on resolving my marriage? I am really really upset that he would make such a drastic choice on his own, i feel like, whatever little progress that I had made or whatever little bit he said to make me think he was open to the idea that we might stay together, is out the window. He bought a car without consulting with me at all! and gave me no information about the car either. then on the other hand, i find it interesting that he mentioned it to me at all... but that could be reasons such as there will be some mail coming to the house about it or something so he figured he better say something, i dont know.

And now i have to think about IF we do stay together, thats a huge burden now financially. We discussed getting a new car before but that was AFTER we moved from here and it was only going to be a sensible car since we were going to have a baby since the car we have now is a little 2 door coupe. I guarantee he didnt buy a sensible car. I feel 100% disrespected, and all i have been working on is how i can respect him more and he disrespects me like this.... is it normal that i almost feel like i dont care what happens between us anymore??