NewMama--
For what it's worth, I think you're amazing! You're putting it all out there, not playing games or trying to come out ahead. You're trying to SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE!!! Your WH's thoughts are changing just as quickly as yours are! I think your instinct is spot-on. And I think your attitude is incredible!!!! I'm sure I'm not the only one who doesn't post, so I'll take the liberty of responding for all of us (yikes!) - thank you for being the best inspiration ever! Please just keep doing what you're doing!!!!

I'm sending the best thoughts and luck your way!!!!!!!!!!